Savage Lovecast
by Dan Savage
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After Action Report #55
About this podcast
Dan Savage, America's only advice columnist, answers your sex and relationship questions and yaps about politics. To record a question for Dan to be answered in a later podcast, record your question and send it to [email protected], or call 206-302-2064. For a much longer version of the show, with no ads, visit savage.love and get yourself a subscription.
Episodes
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- After Action Report #55 · 23 min · Episode 55What the F is an agonophile? We’ll tell you. It’s super-freak who gets turned on by struggling or fighting, a.k.a wrestling. Enter Darren- a bi man who has been into it since he…
- Savage Love Episode 1044 · 52 min · Episode 1044Dan? Is there ANY nipple play porn for straights? Like AT ALL? A woman is into sexting and trading nude pics. She does NOT enjoy oral- neither giving nor receiving. But the…
- After Action Report #54 · 17 min · Episode 54Meet Mark, a married man in his 60s who, with his husband, took part in a horse market. They encountered mares, stallions, handlers, and stable masters.If you’re wondering if you…
- Savage Love Episode 1043 · 49 min · Episode 1043Oh my god you guys it’s the quickies show!You called. Asked fast. Dan kept answers shorter than usual. Enjoy. Phew! Now you can long-winded again. Call or text 206-302-2064…
- After Action Report #53 · 20 min · Episode 53Meet Nick, who went to Berlin for a bachelor party, and had his very first Folsom experience. What happens at Folsom Berlin? What happens at Lab.Oratory?Have a listen, and…
- Savage Lovecast Episode 1042 · 53 min · Episode 1042A bisexual woman has started dating a lady for the first time. She doesn't feel much sexual spark. Is it because of the baggy, unflattering clothes her girlfriend wears? Is it…
- After Action Report #52 · 20 min · Episode 52Deep in rural Sweden, the tantric kinksters are getting FREAKY. At the “Sexsibility Festival” a 5-day erotic gathering where you can explore tantra, contact improv, and eye…
- Savage Love Episode 1041 · 55 min · Episode 1041A 25 year-old queer, plus-size woman has never been in a relationship or had sex. Both her size and virginity make it hard to connect with people through the apps. How can she…
- After Action Report #51 · 18 min · Episode 51What’s it like to be a bearded, 6’4″, 250 pounc fella getting his nails done in preparation for the first crossdressing session with his wife? Dust off your gender studies 101…
- Savage Love Episode 1040 · 56 min · Episode 1040A divorced father of adult children understood himself to be bisexual later in life. He digs men in an aromantic, casual sex kind of way. Is he obligated to tell his family? Does…
- After Action Report #50 · 16 min · Episode 50Imogen was a seasoned Burning Man pro. But she’d never done a threeway with whippets there before… Hear all about her dusty experience. What have YOU done lately? Hmmmm?Write…
- Savage Love Episode 1039 · 59 min · Episode 1039A gay man in his 60s is perplexed about foot fetishes, and what is so damn sexy about his feet. A man is frustrated by the concept of "false positives" when he tests for herpes…
- After Action Report #49 · 21 min · Episode 49What's in the duffel bag? On her vacation to Bali, she hooked up with a hot, rich dude with a glass house in the jungle. But, what tricks did he have up his sleeve? After a…
- Savage Love Episode 1038 · 59 min · Episode 1038We begin the show...drunkenly. A lit lady enjoys the sensation of touching ears. Room temperature, or slightly chilled. Not too cold. But "ear porn?" Is that a thing? A lucky…
- After Action Report #48 · 16 min · Episode 48Just how polite are Canadians? Meet Owen, a Canuck whose good manners went above and beyond when he visited the red light district in Amsterdam. Name a lake after this guy!…
- Savage Love Episode 1037 · 50 min · Episode 1037Grapefruiting! It's a new sex act involving fruit! Can *any* word be verbed? Apparently! A woman wonders how anyone can successfully fake an orgasm, when the physical…
- After Action Report #47 · 18 min · Episode 47No words exchanged. He lying in a hotel bed. She enters and just watches. It was their first and only date. Rachel’s story proves that scheduled sex most certainly CAN be hot…
- Savage Love Episode 1036 · 46 min · Episode 1036Bummer! A man had just met with a male-female couple who wanted him to take part in a kinky three-way. But when he confessed that he sometimes has trouble coming, they cancelled…
- After Action Report #46 · 19 min · Episode 46Meet Tom who went on a very special vacation with his girlfriend. Packing checklist: Kink outfits Consent Form Waste bag How did it go? You'll find out. Send us your…
- Savage Love Episode 1035 · 57 min · Episode 1035A man has been together with his boyfriend for 10 years. The caller works long hard hours and values peace and quiet when he comes home. But his boyfriend works from home all day…
- After Action Report #45 · 16 min · Episode 45Cat started a sex toy company, so she had to come out as kinky to friends and family. What she didn’t expect was the stampede of her mother’s boomer friends asking for product……
- Savage Lovecast Episode 1034 · 54 min · Episode 1034Any military lawyers in the house? A gay man and his boyfriend, both serving active duty, want to open their relationship. But infidelity is forbidden by military law. How risky…
- After Action Report #44 · 19 min · Episode 44Hey Everybody! Meet Jay- a pan, poly furry who, along with 15 other queer furries, met up for a "kink tasting, orgy event." What goes on at kink cabin? We won't say here, but…
- Savage Love Episode 1033 · 52 min · Episode 1033A gay, married couple journeyed to Montreal to enjoy the services of a tantric masseur. And they REALLY enjoyed him. But did this open Pandora's box? How can they continue to…
- After Action Report #43 · 18 min · Episode 43After 22 years of marriage, well, it was just time. Hear Trix’s story about writing, filming and performing in her “queer adoring gang bang” story. And how she feels about the…
- Savage Lovecast Episode 1032 · 59 minAs this is a wholesome, family-focused show, we bookend the episode with parenting questions. First, a woman's 5 year-old nephew wants to wear a padlock around his neck. He saw…
- After Action Report #42 · 21 min · Episode 42Jade is normally a sub with her husband. But when she inserted the sounding rod into his urethra, did she really feel submissive? Really? It’s a journey… Tell us all about your…
- Micro Extra! Sex & Politics #46 · 46 min · Episode 43Sex & Politics #46 Can we really change? Welcome to Sex & Politics!For this bonus episode, Dan chatted with Benoit Denizet-Lewis, an associate professor at Emerson College, a…
- Savage Love Episode 1031 · 52 min · Episode 1031A woman in her 60s has a husband who is into feet. She's planning to get a professional foot massage. Can he come along and watch if he promises to hide his boner? A woman has a…
- After Action Report #41 · 16 min · Episode 41What’s it like for a trans man at a gay leather convention?Listen and you will find out… Tell us about your brave excursion. Write about your experience and send it to Dan…
- Savage Lovecast Episode 1030 · 53 min · Episode 1030Her friend's new girlfriend stinks to high heaven. Is this intentional? Is it a kink? What would be the polite way to ask her to wash up? A woman with super-high libido is…
- After Action Report #40 · 16 min · Episode 40“He had a kiddy pool set up by the time we were there…” Meet Abe, who finally got to *immerse* himself in the world of gunge.You haven’t heard of gunge, you say? Simply press…
- Savage Love Episode 1029 · 53 min · Episode 1029An intersex man had his urethra operated on when he was a toddler. Now he wants to try sounding but his doctors advise against it. He is suspicious of doctors after his…
- After Action Report #39 · 19 min · Episode 39Monica is a tried and true, old school Magnum sub. With Dan’s advice in her head, she applied to join a “foot night” where men pay to play…with women’s feet. Did Monica have a…
- Savage Love Episode 1028 · 54 min · Episode 1028Ouch! A woman has been fisting her boyfriend to both of their delight. But guess what hurts: Her hand! How can she get in there comfortably? A woman is trying to convince both…
- After Action Report #38 · 17 min · Episode 38In one of the more graphic After Action Reports we’ve had the pleasure to relay, hear Mary’s story not of getting peed ON, but getting peed IN. Don’t worry. She has a “robust…
- Savage Love Episode 1027 · 54 min · Episode 1027A lesbian with a pregnant wife is confounded and disgruntled at the way Pride celebrations can be a little too sex positive, especially if you have a little kid. Should Pride…
- After Action Report #37 · 15 min · Episode 37Have you ever bitten a dick? Like really hard?NO YOU HAVE NOT.She did. And he liked it. Listen in. If you’ve done something…shocking, and you want to tell us about it, send the…
- Savage Love Episode 1026 · 58 min · Episode 1026A man in a poly relationship is worried that his penis smells like his girlfriend's vagina despite his meticulous hygiene practices. This doesn't bother him. But when he…
- After Action Report #36 · 18 min · Episode 36Did you know that they have bathhouses in Canada? They do!Meet Jay, married to his husband for 10 years, and ready for adventure.Even though he was nervous and his glasses kept…
- Savage Love Episode 1025 · 56 min · Episode 1025A woman's hot boyfriend is being harassed by his upstairs neighbor who has come up with a novel way to summon him to his door. Our first guest is GI physician and friend of the…
- After Action Report #35 · 23 min · Episode 35Meet Maxon. Ho hum. Just your typical non-binary, exhibitionist, pre-op sub who has worn a titanium cock-cage constantly for over 850 days. If this sounds rather dull to you…
- Savage Lovecast Episode 1024 · 57 min · Episode 1024A woman discovers her recently deceased father had a foot-tickling fetish and doesn't know how to process this new view of her dad. Speaking of kinks, a man with a diaper fetish…
- After Action Report #34 · 14 min · Episode 34Becca just needed to relax. So she thought she’d be like the gays and try poppers. How did it go? Listen and then you’ll know. If you’ve recently tried a new product or…
- Savage Lovecast Episode 1023 · 51 min · Episode 1023A woman who enjoys multiple orgasms doesn't understand why, physiologically, all woman can't come over and over and over. Like she can. A gay man wants a new word for the…
- After Action Report #33 · 17 min · Episode 33Somewhere in Peru, 1,100 feet above the sea, a handsome masseuse in Peru offered our brave, queer woman weed, sensual massage and “yoni massage.” Seems sketchy, but he got lots…
- Savage Love Episode 1022 · 49 min · Episode 1022A trans woman's friend is married to a Russian-born MAGA creep-o. But, plot twist! The Trump/Putin-lover is transitioning! It's hard for the caller to gin up sympathy for someone…
- After Action Report #32 · 16 min · Episode 32Ho hum. Threeway, marathon fuck session with a woman at a punk rock party. Sounds boring, right? But wait for it- this 3-way has a surprise ending. Surprise us! Write about…
- Savage Love Episode 1021 · 53 min · Episode 1021A woman who really wants a long term partner has gotten a "tantric opportunity" she may not be able to refuse. Hours and hours of hot sex? But the dude isn't boyfriend material…
- After Action Report #31 · 16 min · Episode 31A man who wanted to confirm his hetero-flexibility gives his first BJ. But did he pass the cocksucker test? Not everyone does. Hear all about it. Want to share your first time…
