The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast
de Nick and Amy with The Ultimate Intimacy App
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521. She Doesn't Want The Sexual Pressure From Him, And He Doesn't…
521. She Doesn't Want The Sexual Pressure From Him, And He Doesn't…
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Nick and Amy are the creators and owners of the Ultimate Intimacy App and brand. They dive into all the tough topics regarding sexual and emotional intimacy, and discuss the things that most couples deal with regularly in marriage, that are seldom talked about on other podcasts. They are raw, unscripted, personal, and Nick will most likely say things he will regret ;)
They have been married over 22 years and have 4 kids, 3 dogs, and share their own life experiences and trials that have helped them transform their own relationship. They are on a mission to help couples not just survive in marriage, but thrive in marriage.
Their podcast is focused on helping you find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your relationship both in and out of the bedroom. Also, for a great resource to help transform your relationship, check out the Ultimate Intimacy App at ultimateintimacy.com
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- 521. She Doesn't Want The Sexual Pressure From Him, And He Doesn't Want The Sexual Rejection From Her... How Can Couples Find Balance? - With Austin · 43 minThis is one of the most common things we hear from couples: She doesn't want to feel pressured into having sex, and he doesn't want to constantly feel sexually rejected…
- 520. These Things Will Turn Your Spouse On.... And Yet They Have Nothing To Do With Sex! · 50 minWhat if some of the biggest turn ons in marriage have absolutely nothing to do with what happens in the bedroom? The truth is, passion and sexual desire often begin LONG before…
- 519. What To Do When A Spouse Is Driven To Succeed At Everything... Except The Marriage? Responding To A Listeners Email With Austin · 33 minWhat happens when your spouse is motivated, hardworking, and determined to succeed at everything in life... except your marriage? They give 100% to their career, business…
- 518. Are You Drifting Apart? How to Get C.L.O.S.E.R. Emotionally and Sexually! · 33 minImagine you and your spouse are floating in the ocean, each in your own raft. At first, you're right next to each other, close enough to talk, laugh, and reach out to one…
- 517. Part 2 - The Emotional And Sexual Needs Of Husbands That Wive's Often Dismiss Or Overlook With Austin · 30 minWe're back with Part 2 of one of the most important conversations about marriage, intimacy, and the emotional needs of husbands! In Part 1, we explored why so many husbands feel…
- 516. Does Your Spouse Feel the Same Way You Do About Your Marriage Intimacy? The Marriage Assessment That Could Change Everything! · 35 minWhat if you think your marriage is doing great in certain areas, but your spouse feels completely differently? You might be surprised by what you discover! One evening while we…
- 515. The Emotional And Sexual Needs Of Husbands That Wive's Often Dismiss Or Overlook - Part 1 With Austin · 30 minWe hear a lot (and talk a lot) about what wives need to feel emotionally safe, loved, appreciated, and sexually connected in marriage. But what about husbands? What about the…
- 514. Do We Put Too Much Emphasis On Sexual Intimacy In Marriage? - Reading A Listeners Email · 39 minIs sexual intimacy really as important in marriage as we make it out to be? Or have we put so much emphasis on sex that we've lost sight of what marriage is really about? In this…
- 513. If You Struggle With These Things, Your Marriage Needs This - With Austin · 29 minWhat if you could take one trip together and come home feeling closer, more connected, more passionate, and more in love than you have in years? When couples write to us asking…
- 512. Why The Devil Does Everything He Can To Get You In The Bedroom Before You're Married, And Then Keep You Out Of The Bedroom Once You're Married · 37 minHave you ever stopped to think about how strange this is that before marriage, most couples can't keep their hands off each other. The attraction is intense. The passion is…
- 511. I've Told You What I Need... So Why Does Nothing Change? Part 2 - With Austin · 40 minWe’re back with Part 2, and we’re going even deeper! What happens when you’ve clearly told your spouse what you need, they KNOW you’re hurting, and yet... nothing seems to…
- 510. How Much Of Libido Is Mental? Better Sex Starts Here... · 49 minShe’s thinking about the kids, schedules, work, groceries, appointments, laundry, what needs to happen tomorrow, the conversation she forgot to have, the thing she needs to…
- 509. I've Told You What I Need... So Why Does Nothing Change? Therapist Interview Part 1 · 31 minHave you ever looked at your spouse and thought, “How many times do I have to say this before something actually changes?” You’ve explained what you need. You’ve tried being nice…
- 508. All Of The Negative Things That Can Happen From "Not Talking About It" In Marriage · 32 minWe’ve talked a lot on the podcast and in our newsletters about what to do when your spouse doesn’t want to talk. But what we haven’t really done is explore all the ways “not…
- 507. Part 2 - A Listeners Email - When A Good Husband Is Fulfilling ALL Of His Wives Needs, But Still Gets No Effort From Her · 40 minIn this part 2 episode we continue our discussions about a listeners email with therapist Austin about what happens when one spouse is giving everything they have to the marriage…
- 506. 8 Reasons To Initiate Even If You Are NOT In The Mood: Does The Lower Desire Spouse Have Responsibility For Creating Passion Too? · 18 minWho usually initiates sexual intimacy in your marriage? If the answer is almost always the same spouse, this episode could be a game changer for your relationship. Initiating sex…
- 505. A Listeners Email - When A Good Husband Is Fulfilling ALL Of His Wives Needs, But Still Gets No Effort From Her · 38 minWhat happens when one spouse is giving everything they have to the marriage but still feels unwanted, unimportant, and completely alone? In this powerful episode of the Ultimate…
- 504. Female Pleasure and Orgasm: 15 Things Every Couple Should Know? · 32 minWhy do some wives struggle to enjoy sex or experience orgasm? In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy share 15 important facts about female orgasm and…
- 503. Part 2 To Episode 501 - How Men Can Harness And Manage Their Strong Sex Drive And How Women Can Awaken Theirs - With Austin · 38 minIn this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy continue their discussion from episode 501 with Austin, and discuss one of the most common dynamics in marriage…
- 502. He Wants Sex To Feel Connected. She Wants Connection To Want Sex. Why we view it so differently... · 37 minWhy do two people who deeply love each other sometimes struggle so much in the bedroom? This week on the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into one of the biggest…
- 501. Why Do So Many Issues In Marriage Correlate With Sex, Or The Lack Thereof? Part ONE - With Austin · 40 minWhy does sexual intimacy seem to be connected to so many other areas of marriage? When couples are struggling with communication, resentment, emotional disconnection, trust…
- 500. Why Feeling Pressured For Sex Is A Desire Killer For Wives (And How To Fix It) · 41 minWhy Feeling Pressured for Sex Is a Turn-Off for Wives What if the very thing you're doing to get more sex is actually the thing making your spouse want less sex? This week on the…
- 499. Why Does the Pursuit Stop After Marriage? with Therapist Austin · 38 minWhy do we put so much effort into winning our spouse’s heart while dating, only to slowly stop doing those same things once we’re married? In this episode of the Ultimate…
- 498. Does More Respect Equal Better Sex In Marriage? · 33 minIn this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into the critical connection between mutual respect and sexual intimacy in marriage. While it is common for…
- 497. Want to Feel Closer, More Connected & More Desired? Start Here - With Therapist Austin · 36 minIn this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick & Amy sit down with therapist Austin to unpack Stephen Covey’s classic book, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People—but…
- 496. Why The Best Sexual Intimacy Might Start With This Weekly Marriage Meeting · 31 minWhat if 20 simple questions could help you reconnect, reduce resentment, improve communication, strengthen emotional intimacy, and even improve your sex life? In this fun…
- 495. The Respect Your Marriage Is Missing (And You May Not Even Realize It) - With Therapist Austin · 30 minWhat does respect really look like in marriage? It’s so much more than simply being polite or avoiding arguments. Respect is shown in the way we speak to our spouse, the way we…
- 494. Is This OK? The Marriage Bed Questions Couples Are Asking... And Our Honest Answers · 43 minSex can be one of the most powerful ways a husband and wife connect. When intimacy is approached in a healthy way, it can deepen emotional connection, build trust, increase…
- 493. The #1 Marriage Mistake: If You Want Healthy, Happy Kids Stop Putting Them Before Your Spouse - Therapist Austin Interview · 27 minShould Your Spouse Really Come First? It's one of the most controversial messages we share, and every time we talk about it, the comments explode. Should your spouse come before…
- 492. Answering The Most Common Questions People Ask About Us - Some Of Them Might Surprise You · 43 minGet to know Nick & Amy like never before! In this fun, honest, and personal episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, we're pulling back the curtain and answering some of the…
- 491. Are You Having Sex, But Still Feel Lonely, Disconnected And Unseen? - With Austin · 29 minHave you ever felt like something is missing in your marriage, but you just can't put your finger on it? Maybe your communication isn't terrible, your intimacy isn't nonexistent…
- 490. The Myths About Sex That Keep You From Having The Intimate Life You Desire · 41 minMost couples never realize they've been believing lies about sex for years. They compare their marriage to Hollywood, social media, or unrealistic expectations and then wonder…
- 489. EVERYTHING In Your Marriage Comes Down To Your Spouse Feeling Safe With You - But What Does That Even Look Like? - With Austin · 39 minIn episode 433 with Austin Ellis, we talked about how a man can be a better husband and father and discussed safety in marriage. If your wife doesn't feel safe in your marriage…
- 488. 11 Things Every Wife Should Know (Survey answers from the husbands) · 29 minA few weeks ago, we did a podcast titled: 11 Things Every Husband Should Know (But Somehow Missed The Memo). Now it's time for the flip side. In this fun and honest episode of…
- 487. Why Do We Keep Having The Same Fights And Issues Over And Over Again? How Can We Actually Change? - With Austin · 28 minMany couples tell us, and we’ve seen it in our own marriage too, that they keep running into the same arguments over and over again. Even after trying counseling, things might…
- 486. How To Become An Expert At Having Intimate Conversations - For A Better Intimate Life · 44 minFor most couple's, talking about sex is a very difficult thing to do. It often times turns into an argument and can cause even more of a disconnect in the relationship. If you…
- 485. The Hidden Marriage Killer: Obligatory Sex - With Austin Part 2 · 54 minIn this powerful follow-up episode, we continue our conversation with therapist Austin about one of the most misunderstood topics in marriage: obligatory sex. If you haven't…
- 484. 11 Golden Marriage Rules For A Passionate and Healthy Marriage Relationship · 37 minWe are getting close to 500 episodes of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, and after all this time, we’ve talked about almost every marriage topic imaginable — communication…
- 483. The Hidden Marriage Killer: Obligatory Sex - With Austin Part 1 · 29 minObligatory sex is when one spouse engages in sexual activity not because they feel desire, but because they feel pressured, obligated, or afraid of disappointing their spouse. We…
- 482. 11 Things Every Husband Should Know (But Somehow Missed the Memo) · 34 minIn this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy explore the 10 things wives wish their husbands truly understood. Drawing from conversations with thousands of…
- 481. What Does It Mean To Be United And "One" In Marriage - With LMFT Austin · 25 minIf you're a regular listener of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, you've probably heard Austin talk about the importance of becoming "one" in marriage. But what does that really…
- 480. Should Sex Be Viewed As Just "Optional" In A Good And Healthy Marriage? - Responding To A Listeners Email · 54 minHas sexual intimacy become viewed as "optional" in your marriage? If your spouse came to you before you got married and said "Just so you know, when we are married, I am never…
- 479. The Intimacy Crisis No One Talks About: Porn, Trust, And Reconnecting As A Couple With Austin LMFT · 57 minIn this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Austin have an honest and vulnerable conversation about the real reasons many men turn to porn and the devastating…
- 478. Interpreting Your Wife - What Your Wife Really Means When She Says These Things :) · 37 minIn this fun and lighthearted episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into the secret language of marriage and uncover what wives really mean when they say…
- 477. Why "Talking" About Your Sex Life With Your Spouse Doesn’t Automatically Make It Better - What To Do With Sex Therapist Austin · 50 minIn most marriages, one spouse has a higher desire for intimacy, while the other has a lower desire. And if you’re being honest… navigating that difference can feel exhausting…
- 476. What Does Love Really Look Like? - 12 Signs Of True Love In Marriage · 30 minIn this episode of The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy dive into one of the most important questions in marriage: What does true love actually look like in marriage? Real…
- 475. Why Is It That The Smallest Things In Marriage Can Turn Into The Biggest Fights? · 36 minWhy is it that the smallest things in marriage can suddenly turn into the biggest fights? We recently asked YOU — our Ultimate Intimacy audience: “Do little things ever cause…
- 474. Marriage Advice That We Were Told Was Good, But Really Isn't... Do You Agree? · 30 minWhat if some of the marriage advice you've always believed is actually hurting your relationship? In this episode of the Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy reveal the most…
- 473. Unlocking Feminine Sexuality Both Emotionally And Sexually.... Interview With A Sex Therapist · 1 h 2 minIf you loved our most downloaded episode ever — Episode 30: It’s All About The Clitoris! with Cindy Scharkey — then you do NOT want to miss this conversation. Let’s be honest……
- 472. If You’re Confused By Your Wife’s Mood, Low Drive, Or Emotional Distance… This Episode Could Change Your Entire Marriage · 60 minOn this episode of the The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast, Nick and Amy sit down with menopause and perimenopause expert Jesse Robertson for a powerful and eye-opening conversation…
