Turns Out I'm Into It!
by Harley Rabbit
#122: Men, What’s Your Specialty in the Bedroom?
About this podcast
Turns Out I’m Into It is your backstage pass to the world of kink—where curiosity is queen, shame is stripped away, and nothing is off-limits. Hosted by somatic sexologist Harley Rabbit, this podcast delves into the psychology of desire, exploring how BDSM, power dynamics, and play can unlock self-discovery, intimacy, and even healing.
From abduction fantasies to shibari, age play to non-monogamy, Harley serves up candid personal stories and juicy interviews with kink experts from around the globe. Whether you're a seasoned kinkster, a wide-eyed newbie, or just here for the naughty stories, this show will indulge your imagination, tickle your curiosity, and maybe—just maybe—have you whispering, turns out, I’m into it too!
Episodes
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- #122: Men, What’s Your Specialty in the Bedroom? · 31 minMen are often taught that being good in bed means being ready for sex, knowing how to perform, and making sure their partner is satisfied. But how often are men actually…
- #121: Hot Doctor, Big Dick… Why Was I Still Bored? · 37 minI’m back! After a couple of months away from the podcast, I’m finally behind the mic again. In this episode, I’m sharing where I’ve been, what I’ve been working on, and the story…
- #120: Degradation vs Humiliation — What’s the Difference? 🪱 · 26 minWhat’s the difference between degradation and humiliation? While these kinks often get grouped together, they actually tap into very different emotional experiences. In this…
- #119: New Erototypes for Taboo, Sensation & Transformation · 30 minWelcome friends! This one's for the sex nerds. 🤓 In this episode I'm nerding out on sexology and taking you behind the scenes on the Erototypes framework I've been developing. If…
- #118: Where Fetishes Come From – And Why I'm Now Into PJ's · 23 minThis week I'm diving into the fascinating world of fetishes: what they are, how they differ from core desires, and why some very specific things can become incredibly erotic. I…
- #117: Kink Isn't Just About Pain (The 4 Types of Turn On) · 28 minKink has a bit of a PR problem. Most people assume it’s all pain, whips and chains… but that’s actually a tiny slice of what’s possible. In this episode, I’m breaking down the 4…
- #116: Introducing Erototypes: A Playful Way to Understand What Turns You On · 21 minAlright friends, it’s been a long time coming, but I’m finally ready to share something I’ve been quietly building behind the scenes. 🥁🥁🥁 In this episode, I’m introducing…
- #115: What Actually Makes Kinky Relationships Feel Secure · 19 minKink can ask a lot from a relationship. When we’re exploring things that feel vulnerable, taboo, or a little scary, the sense of safety between partners becomes really important…
- #114: Wearable Claws: The Primal Toy You Didn't Know You Needed – with J from Claws & Clamps · 58 minClaws are much more than a costume piece. They can completely change how your hands feel in play — and how you feel wearing them. In this episode, I’m joined by J from Claws &…
- #113: I’m Pretty Sure the World Is Secretly Kinky · 20 minKink is supposed to be this underground, secret-club thing… Except it’s actually everywhere. In this episode, I’m diving into the surprisingly kinky places I’ve spotted power…
- #112: Using Kink to Stay in My Body When I’m Not Okay · 23 minThis episode is a little more vulnerable than usual, but so many of us are impacted by our mental health. So this week I’m sharing how kink is helping me stay grounded when I'm…
- #111: Let’s Talk Wax, Impact, and Sensation Play — with El from Collared Foxy · 59 minIn this episode, I’m joined by El from Collared Foxy for a deep dive into the world of sensation play. We talk through wax play and impact play in a way that’s practical…
- #110: Why I Started Feeling Weird About Being Sexual Online · 20 minI’ve always proudly held the value that there is no shame in being a sexual being. I’ve lived that belief — posting spicy photos on FetLife, and speaking openly about kink…
- #109: How to Make Kink Fit Into Your Busy Life · 19 minFor a long time, I thought kink was all about big, flashy peak experiences — elaborate scenes, intense role play, and wild adventures that take a lot of time and energy. And…
- #108: Christmas Special – A Very Adult Christmas 🎅✨ · 29 minMerry Christmas, my lovelies, and welcome to my very first Christmas special! This episode is a little gift from me to you: a cosy, cheeky Christmas story with a very Harley…
- #107: Why High-Achieving Women Crave Surrender – with Julieta Chiara · 59 minIf you’ve ever wondered why so many smart, capable, high-performing women melt into a puddle the moment someone takes control… this episode is going to hit home. Today I’m joined…
- #106: Twelve Naughty Ideas for a Very Kinky Christmas · 30 minIt’s officially December, which means two things: Christmas chaos is upon us, andI am absolutely going to find ways to make it kinky.In this week’s episode, I’m sharing 12 fun…
- #105: Tentacle Erotica — The Art, the History, and My First Toy Review 🐙 · 32 minHey friends, Harley here! This week we’re diving into one of the most misunderstood and surprisingly historic corners of fetish culture: tentacle erotica. From centuries-old…
- #104: Inside the World of Nothosaur Toys - with Kingsley · 42 minHey friends, it's Harley here. In this episode, I chat with Kingsley from Nothosaur, the fantasy toy company turning imagination into art. From dragons and wolves to tentacles…
- #103: Evolution of a Shibari Master — with Kazami Sensei · 1 h 5 minIn this episode, I speak with Kazami Sensei, one of Japan’s most respected figures in shibari and the founder of Kazami-ryu. Over a career spanning more than thirty years, he has…







