Dateable()AF
de Rachel Howell & Dr. Sarah Kyle
S4E2: I Said I’m Fine. Why Didn’t You Know I Wasn’t?
Sobre este podcast
The Dateable AF podcast is hosted by Dr. Sarah Kyle and Rachel Howell.
Please check out our website https://www.dateableaf.com/
Dateable AF is a relationship podcast that goes deeper than dating advice. Hosted by a therapist and a researcher, the show breaks down the emotional patterns behind connection, conflict, identity, and growth. We skip platitudes and focus on what actually helps people relate more honestly, securely, and sustainably.
Hosted by two longtime friends, this show dives into the wild, wonderful, and often WTF world of all kinds of relationships—with honesty, humor, and zero shame. Expect smart takes, relatable stories, and the occasional U-Haul reference.
Producer: Jordan Cannon & Shelly Silvey Grabe
Theme Song: Cade Kyle
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Episodios
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- S4E2: I Said I’m Fine. Why Didn’t You Know I Wasn’t? · 31 min · Temporada 4 Episodio 2Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! Dateable AF Show Notes: Ever told someone you're fine when you…
- S4E1: When Shit Gets Real, Who Actually Shows Up? · 36 min · Temporada 4 Episodio 1Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! Dateable AF Show Notes: Have you ever thought, "When Shit Gets Real. Who…
- S3E14: “Someday You’ll Be Amazing”: The Trap of Falling in Love With Someone’s Potential · 33 min · Temporada 3 Episodio 14Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! Dateable AF Show Notes: Have you ever thought, “I’ve explained this so…
- S3E13: “Insight Isn’t Self-Attack”: When Self-Awareness Turns Into Self-Criticism · 23 min · Temporada 3 Episodio 13Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! Dateable AF Show Notes: Self-awareness is supposed to help you grow. But…
- S3E12: “Awkward Won’t Kill You” Learning to Tolerate Discomfort · 35 min · Temporada 3 Episodio 12Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! Dateable AF Show Notes: Have you ever thought, “I’ve explained this so…
- S3E11: “Great Chat… About You”: When People Don’t Ask Questions · 35 min · Temporada 3 Episodio 11Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! Dateable AF Show Notes: Have you ever thought, “I’ve explained this so…
- S3E10: Trust Comes Back When Behavior Changes · 33 min · Temporada 3 Episodio 10Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! Dateable AF Show Notes: Have you ever thought, “I’ve explained this so…
- S3E9: Owning It vs. Explaining It: What Accountability Looks Like in Real Life · 29 min · Temporada 3 Episodio 9Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! Dateable AF Show Notes: S3E9: Owning It vs. Explaining It: What…
- S3E8 “Nothing’s Wrong… So Why Am I Unhappy?”: When Safety Becomes Stagnation · 36 min · Temporada 3 Episodio 8Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! Dateable AF Show Notes: Sometimes the hardest relationship problem to…
- S3E7: “It’s Easier If I Just Do It”: Why You’re Always the One Who Adjusts · 37 min · Temporada 3 Episodio 7Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! Dateable AF Show Notes: Have you ever thought, “I’ve explained this so…
- S3E6: Why Your Relationship Changed When You Did: When growth creates distance between partners · 36 min · Temporada 3 Episodio 6Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! Dateable AF Show Notes: Have you ever thought, “I’ve explained this so…
- S3E5: Fear of Being Seen vs. Fear of Being Left: Why You Abandon Yourself Before Anyone Else Can · 33 min · Temporada 3 Episodio 5Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! Dateable AF Show Notes: S3E5: Fear of Being Seen vs. Fear of Being Left…
- S3E4: You’re Not Bad at Communication. You’re Tolerating Too Much: When Talking Doesn’t Fix the Problem · 37 min · Temporada 3 Episodio 4Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! Dateable AF Show Notes: S3E4: You’re Not Bad at Communication. You’re…
- S3E3: Shame and defensiveness in relationships: Why You Feel Accused When No One Is Accusing You · 34 min · Temporada 3 Episodio 3Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! Dateable AF Show Notes: Have you ever had a partner say, “Hey, can we…
- S3E2: “Are You Regulated or Just Really Good at Not Feeling?” · 32 min · Temporada 3 Episodio 2Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! Dateable AF Show Notes: A lot of people think emotional regulation means…
- S3E1: Come Closer… Not Like That - Why Intimacy Feels Riskier Than Loneliness · 37 min · Temporada 3 Episodio 1Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! Dateable AF Show Notes: Why Intimacy Feels Riskier Than Loneliness** This…
- Mistletoe & Minefields: Navigating the Holidays with Your Partner · 36 min · Temporada 2 Episodio 17Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! Dateable AF Show Notes: Meet Rachel Howell and Dr. Sarah Kyle Producer…
- S2E16: Control Issues in Cute Outfits: Why we try to manage our emotions by managing our partner’s behavior (and how to stop). · 45 min · Temporada 2 Episodio 16Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! Dateable AF Show Notes: Meet Rachel Howell and Dr. Sarah Kyle Producer…
- S2E15: Fight Right: How to Argue Without Burning the House Down · 48 min · Temporada 2 Episodio 15Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! Dateable AF Show Notes: Rachel and Sarah discussing Kissing Producer…
- S2E14: “Gaydar 2.0: How We Actually Know Who’s Queer These Days” · 39 min · Temporada 2 Episodio 14Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! Dateable AF Show Notes: Rachel and Sarah discussing Who is Queer?…







