The Dildorks
autor: Billy Lore, Kate Sloan
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Do the Fright Thing
Do the Fright Thing
O tomto podcastu
Sex nerds and best friends Billy (billylore.com) and Kate (katesloan.com) talk about all things sex, dating, and masturbating.
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- Do the Fright Thing · 50 min · Epizoda 504Happy belated Halloween! This week we’re discussing fear play, and how fear can be interwoven into kink scenes in hot ways.
- Head Over Heels · 45 min · Epizoda 503In our continuing discussion of foot fetishism, this week we talk about how feet integrate with power, money, latex hoods, and more!
- Getting Off on the Right Foot · 1 h 0 min · Epizoda 502Feet are one of the most commonly fetishized body parts, and yet foot fetishism still carries a surprising amount of stigma. This week, we discuss our experiences doing foot stuff.
- Character Customization · 49 min · Epizoda 501When you change the way you look, you also change the way you feel and the way you’re perceived. This week, we discuss our favorite ways we’ve modified our appearance, from…
- Our 500th Episode! · 58 min · Epizoda 500Can you believe that we’ve done this 500 times?! This week, we reflect on the past decade in our sex lives, reminisce about our favorite guest interviews, and help a listener…
- I'd Slap That · 51 min · Epizoda 499If you’ve ever craved a spanking (as a receiver or a giver), what was it that you were craving, exactly? This week we discuss some of the psychological motivations behind our…
- Slumber Blunders · 1 h 1 min · Epizoda 498Do you like sleeping with people – not having sex, but literally sleeping? This week, we discuss the joys and annoyances of co-sleeping, and how to navigate sleepovers if you’re…
- Crush & Burn · 52 min · Epizoda 497Why is it so hot sometimes to take things slow? This week, we discuss the joys of sexual and romantic “slow burns”!
- Off the Beatin' Path · 1 h 0 min · Epizoda 496This week we’re discussing interesting fetishes from the internet, including extra-large Fleshlights, opening Magic cards naked, a straight couple roleplaying Heated Rivalry, and…
- Come Together · 49 min · Epizoda 495Does group sex hit different in your thirties? This week, we reflect on our evolving relationships to threesomes, foursomes, orgies, etc.
- Eroticizing Exhaustion · 59 min · Epizoda 494How do you maintain a vibrant sex life when tired and in pain all the time? This week Billy interviews Kate about her chronic illness, and the ways she’s used kink to manage it…
- Pro Boner · 45 min · Epizoda 493Why are we so drawn to sexuality as a discussion topic and field of study, and how are people in our industry treated differently than those with more “vanilla” jobs? This week…
- Thrilled by the Skilled · 45 min · Epizoda 492What is “competence kink,” and why is someone being good at things such a common turn-on? This week, we discuss our favorite competencies in others and in ourselves, and what…
- Honey Shot · 53 min · Epizoda 491Is real-life romance anything like a Hollywood romantic comedy? This week we’re discussing portrayals of love and relationships in fiction, and what makes a love story feel real…
- Far-Flung Friends · 52 min · Epizoda 490How do you maintain a friendship with someone who lives far away? We’ve done it for over a decade now, so this week we’re sharing our best advice on long-distance friendships!
- Honey, I'm Home · 52 min · Epizoda 489“Meeting the parents” can be stressful for everyone involved, so this week we’re giving our best advice on it, including from a queer and polyamorous perspective!
- Secret Sauce · 40 min · Epizoda 488We’re answering more questions about lube this week, including which ones are best for travel, which drugstore lubes are actually decent, whether you should bring your own lube…
- Feet of the Moment · 37 min · Epizoda 487This week, Kate and her wife mb interview Jessie Nelson, inventor of the SoleHole, a new foot fetish toy for couples that Kate recently reviewed. Jessie told us all about how he…
- Slippery Situation · 52 min · Epizoda 486Lubricant is a basic part of sex for many people, but there are actually a lot of considerations that go into choosing a good one. This week, we discuss our experiences with…
- A Reel Good Time · 53 min · Epizoda 485Hope your Pride month has been lovely so far! We’re celebrating by discussing some of our favorite queer media and what makes it feel authentically queer.
- Just Plane Kinky · 59 min · Epizoda 484We’ve got some interesting new fetishes from the internet to discuss this week, including jetsetter rimjobs, faux pregnancy, women with apples for heads, and more!
- Pride in Style · 44 min · Epizoda 483Happy Pride month, everybody! This week, we discuss our history with Pride, our current feelings on it, and tips for newbies – and we also recommend some of our favorite gay…
- Duelling Dick Discourse · 45 min · Epizoda 482This week, we’re answering listener questions on a variety of topics, from squirting to piercings to fetishes!
- Good Doggy · 45 min · Epizoda 481Pet play is a popular kink that has spawned many interesting subcultures, so this week we’re talking about our own experiences roleplaying as cats, dogs, and more.
- Makeup, Sex · 52 min · Epizoda 480Makeup is an important part of many people’s self-expression, both in and out of the bedroom – so this week, we discuss how cosmetics intersect with kink, gender, queerness, and…
- New Kinks on the Block · 55 min · Epizoda 479Learning about your sexuality is a lifelong journey, so this week we discussed the process of acquiring/discovering kinks that are new to you and exploring them for the first time.
- Blowing Smoke · 56 min · Epizoda 478Happy belated 4/20! We’re celebrating as we always do: by getting high and answering listener-submitted hypothetical questions about sex, dating, and masturbating.
- Metamour the Merrier · 55 min · Epizoda 477This week we’re discussing metamours, i.e. our partners’ partners – partly because Kate’s recently been on some dates with one of hers!
- When Your Shrink is Kinky · 1 h 4 min · Epizoda 476This week, Billy interviews Calvin Hauer, a sex-positive therapist based in Minneapolis, about being out as queer/kinky and how that can affect the therapy process for both…
- Hysterically Wrong · 58 min · Epizoda 475We’re busting more sex toy myths this week, including the infamous medical origin story of the vibrator, orgasm guarantees, and a dearth of toys for dicks!
- The Vibes Are Off · 48 min · Epizoda 474There are countless myths and misconceptions about sex toys, and this week we try to set the record straight on a few of them!
- The Big Bang · 52 min · Epizoda 473Is large penetration a goal worth aspiring to? This week we discuss our evolving feelings on fisting and other forms of XXL penetration!
- You're In Good Hands · 50 min · Epizoda 472There are always interesting new fetishes to discover! This week we’re discussing some unusual kinks we’ve heard about lately, from latex-sheathed blowjobs to cringe masturbation…
- Words of Jizzdom · 51 min · Epizoda 471Giving advice can get tricky when you’re polyamorous (or just prone to messy romantic drama), so this week we’re offering more advice on giving advice!
- Penny For Your Thoughts? · 45 min · Epizoda 470We love giving advice, so this week we’re advising you on advising – how and when to give helpful advice, the best ways to ask for it, and the common mistakes we’ve made in these…
- How F*cking Romantic! · 46 min · Epizoda 469Happy (belated) Valentine’s Day! This week we celebrated by answering listener questions about love and romance.
- Making an Impact · 56 min · Epizoda 468We used to talk about spanking all the time, but is it still one of our favorite kinks? This week we discuss our current feelings on impact play!
- Flirt Alert! · 1 h 2 min · Epizoda 467This week, we chat with dating coach/columnist (and former pickup artist) Harris O’Malley, a.k.a. Doctor Nerdlove, whose work we’ve admired for a long time! He gave us some…
- Yearn, Baby, Yearn · 44 min · Epizoda 466Romantic yearning can be deeply painful, but it’s also kinda hot and fun. This week we discuss our experiences with this unique emotion in contexts like long-distance…
- New Queers' Resolutions · 57 min · Epizoda 465This week, we discuss our favorite sexual fantasies of 2025, the sex & dating goals we set for ourselves last year, and our new goals for 2026.
- Take It From the Top · 52 min · Epizoda 464Happy new year! This week we’re reflecting on the biggest changes in our sex & dating lives in 2025, the sex toys we loved most, and the weirdest sex we had all year.
- Gag Gift · 45 min · Epizoda 463Happy holidays to those celebrating! We’re discussing objectification kink again this week, through a seasonal lens.
- An Object Lesson · 53 min · Epizoda 462What does it mean to be ‘objectified’ in a kink scene, and how is that different from the other, less-hot ways one can be objectified? This week we’re discussing the nuances of…
- Working Out the Kinks · 48 min · Epizoda 461This week we dive deeper into kinky-on-vanilla relationships, discussing how to tell if someone might be vanilla, how to explore kink outside of a newly-opened relationship, and…
- Vivaciously Vanilla · 49 min · Epizoda 460Can a kinkster be truly satisfied dating a vanilla person, and vice-versa? This week we discuss bridging the gap between kinky and vanilla partners!
- Bewitched, Bruised, & Bewildered · 47 min · Epizoda 459Can it be romantic to get spanked, stepped on, and bossed around? Absolutely! This week, Billy interviews Kate about how her submissiveness is deeply entangled with her romantic…
- Sexy Eccentrics · 45 min · Epizoda 458This week we’ve got a whole new batch of interesting fetishes from Reddit to discuss, from trees to heavy metal music to illusionists.
- Full of Yourself · 53 min · Epizoda 457What is self-confidence and why does it matter? This week, we’re unpacking what it means to feel confident, why it’s hot, and how to cultivate it.
- Straight to the Point · 59 min · Epizoda 456This week we continue our discussion of heterosexual culture, discussing straight wedding traditions, gender reveal parties, the kinkification of straight gender roles, and more.
- Set the Record Straight · 54 min · Epizoda 455To celebrate Halloween, this week we’re discussing some of the scarier aspects of heterosexual culture!
