The Dildorks
von Billy Lore, Kate Sloan
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Sex nerds and best friends Billy (billylore.com) and Kate (katesloan.com) talk about all things sex, dating, and masturbating.
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- Do the Fright Thing · 50 Min. · Folge 504Happy belated Halloween! This week we’re discussing fear play, and how fear can be interwoven into kink scenes in hot ways.
- Head Over Heels · 45 Min. · Folge 503In our continuing discussion of foot fetishism, this week we talk about how feet integrate with power, money, latex hoods, and more!
- Getting Off on the Right Foot · 1 Std. 0 Min. · Folge 502Feet are one of the most commonly fetishized body parts, and yet foot fetishism still carries a surprising amount of stigma. This week, we discuss our experiences doing foot stuff.
- Character Customization · 49 Min. · Folge 501When you change the way you look, you also change the way you feel and the way you’re perceived. This week, we discuss our favorite ways we’ve modified our appearance, from…
- Our 500th Episode! · 58 Min. · Folge 500Can you believe that we’ve done this 500 times?! This week, we reflect on the past decade in our sex lives, reminisce about our favorite guest interviews, and help a listener…
- I'd Slap That · 51 Min. · Folge 499If you’ve ever craved a spanking (as a receiver or a giver), what was it that you were craving, exactly? This week we discuss some of the psychological motivations behind our…
- Slumber Blunders · 1 Std. 1 Min. · Folge 498Do you like sleeping with people – not having sex, but literally sleeping? This week, we discuss the joys and annoyances of co-sleeping, and how to navigate sleepovers if you’re…
- Crush & Burn · 52 Min. · Folge 497Why is it so hot sometimes to take things slow? This week, we discuss the joys of sexual and romantic “slow burns”!
- Off the Beatin' Path · 1 Std. 0 Min. · Folge 496This week we’re discussing interesting fetishes from the internet, including extra-large Fleshlights, opening Magic cards naked, a straight couple roleplaying Heated Rivalry, and…
- Come Together · 49 Min. · Folge 495Does group sex hit different in your thirties? This week, we reflect on our evolving relationships to threesomes, foursomes, orgies, etc.
- Eroticizing Exhaustion · 59 Min. · Folge 494How do you maintain a vibrant sex life when tired and in pain all the time? This week Billy interviews Kate about her chronic illness, and the ways she’s used kink to manage it…
- Pro Boner · 45 Min. · Folge 493Why are we so drawn to sexuality as a discussion topic and field of study, and how are people in our industry treated differently than those with more “vanilla” jobs? This week…
- Thrilled by the Skilled · 45 Min. · Folge 492What is “competence kink,” and why is someone being good at things such a common turn-on? This week, we discuss our favorite competencies in others and in ourselves, and what…
- Honey Shot · 53 Min. · Folge 491Is real-life romance anything like a Hollywood romantic comedy? This week we’re discussing portrayals of love and relationships in fiction, and what makes a love story feel real…
- Far-Flung Friends · 52 Min. · Folge 490How do you maintain a friendship with someone who lives far away? We’ve done it for over a decade now, so this week we’re sharing our best advice on long-distance friendships!
- Honey, I'm Home · 52 Min. · Folge 489“Meeting the parents” can be stressful for everyone involved, so this week we’re giving our best advice on it, including from a queer and polyamorous perspective!
- Secret Sauce · 40 Min. · Folge 488We’re answering more questions about lube this week, including which ones are best for travel, which drugstore lubes are actually decent, whether you should bring your own lube…
- Feet of the Moment · 37 Min. · Folge 487This week, Kate and her wife mb interview Jessie Nelson, inventor of the SoleHole, a new foot fetish toy for couples that Kate recently reviewed. Jessie told us all about how he…
- Slippery Situation · 52 Min. · Folge 486Lubricant is a basic part of sex for many people, but there are actually a lot of considerations that go into choosing a good one. This week, we discuss our experiences with…
- A Reel Good Time · 53 Min. · Folge 485Hope your Pride month has been lovely so far! We’re celebrating by discussing some of our favorite queer media and what makes it feel authentically queer.
- Just Plane Kinky · 59 Min. · Folge 484We’ve got some interesting new fetishes from the internet to discuss this week, including jetsetter rimjobs, faux pregnancy, women with apples for heads, and more!
- Pride in Style · 44 Min. · Folge 483Happy Pride month, everybody! This week, we discuss our history with Pride, our current feelings on it, and tips for newbies – and we also recommend some of our favorite gay…
- Duelling Dick Discourse · 45 Min. · Folge 482This week, we’re answering listener questions on a variety of topics, from squirting to piercings to fetishes!
- Good Doggy · 45 Min. · Folge 481Pet play is a popular kink that has spawned many interesting subcultures, so this week we’re talking about our own experiences roleplaying as cats, dogs, and more.
- Makeup, Sex · 52 Min. · Folge 480Makeup is an important part of many people’s self-expression, both in and out of the bedroom – so this week, we discuss how cosmetics intersect with kink, gender, queerness, and…
- New Kinks on the Block · 55 Min. · Folge 479Learning about your sexuality is a lifelong journey, so this week we discussed the process of acquiring/discovering kinks that are new to you and exploring them for the first time.
- Blowing Smoke · 56 Min. · Folge 478Happy belated 4/20! We’re celebrating as we always do: by getting high and answering listener-submitted hypothetical questions about sex, dating, and masturbating.
- Metamour the Merrier · 55 Min. · Folge 477This week we’re discussing metamours, i.e. our partners’ partners – partly because Kate’s recently been on some dates with one of hers!
- When Your Shrink is Kinky · 1 Std. 4 Min. · Folge 476This week, Billy interviews Calvin Hauer, a sex-positive therapist based in Minneapolis, about being out as queer/kinky and how that can affect the therapy process for both…
- Hysterically Wrong · 58 Min. · Folge 475We’re busting more sex toy myths this week, including the infamous medical origin story of the vibrator, orgasm guarantees, and a dearth of toys for dicks!
- The Vibes Are Off · 48 Min. · Folge 474There are countless myths and misconceptions about sex toys, and this week we try to set the record straight on a few of them!
- The Big Bang · 52 Min. · Folge 473Is large penetration a goal worth aspiring to? This week we discuss our evolving feelings on fisting and other forms of XXL penetration!
- You're In Good Hands · 50 Min. · Folge 472There are always interesting new fetishes to discover! This week we’re discussing some unusual kinks we’ve heard about lately, from latex-sheathed blowjobs to cringe masturbation…
- Words of Jizzdom · 51 Min. · Folge 471Giving advice can get tricky when you’re polyamorous (or just prone to messy romantic drama), so this week we’re offering more advice on giving advice!
- Penny For Your Thoughts? · 45 Min. · Folge 470We love giving advice, so this week we’re advising you on advising – how and when to give helpful advice, the best ways to ask for it, and the common mistakes we’ve made in these…
- How F*cking Romantic! · 46 Min. · Folge 469Happy (belated) Valentine’s Day! This week we celebrated by answering listener questions about love and romance.
- Making an Impact · 56 Min. · Folge 468We used to talk about spanking all the time, but is it still one of our favorite kinks? This week we discuss our current feelings on impact play!
- Flirt Alert! · 1 Std. 2 Min. · Folge 467This week, we chat with dating coach/columnist (and former pickup artist) Harris O’Malley, a.k.a. Doctor Nerdlove, whose work we’ve admired for a long time! He gave us some…
- Yearn, Baby, Yearn · 44 Min. · Folge 466Romantic yearning can be deeply painful, but it’s also kinda hot and fun. This week we discuss our experiences with this unique emotion in contexts like long-distance…
- New Queers' Resolutions · 57 Min. · Folge 465This week, we discuss our favorite sexual fantasies of 2025, the sex & dating goals we set for ourselves last year, and our new goals for 2026.
- Take It From the Top · 52 Min. · Folge 464Happy new year! This week we’re reflecting on the biggest changes in our sex & dating lives in 2025, the sex toys we loved most, and the weirdest sex we had all year.
- Gag Gift · 45 Min. · Folge 463Happy holidays to those celebrating! We’re discussing objectification kink again this week, through a seasonal lens.
- An Object Lesson · 53 Min. · Folge 462What does it mean to be ‘objectified’ in a kink scene, and how is that different from the other, less-hot ways one can be objectified? This week we’re discussing the nuances of…
- Working Out the Kinks · 48 Min. · Folge 461This week we dive deeper into kinky-on-vanilla relationships, discussing how to tell if someone might be vanilla, how to explore kink outside of a newly-opened relationship, and…
- Vivaciously Vanilla · 49 Min. · Folge 460Can a kinkster be truly satisfied dating a vanilla person, and vice-versa? This week we discuss bridging the gap between kinky and vanilla partners!
- Bewitched, Bruised, & Bewildered · 47 Min. · Folge 459Can it be romantic to get spanked, stepped on, and bossed around? Absolutely! This week, Billy interviews Kate about how her submissiveness is deeply entangled with her romantic…
- Sexy Eccentrics · 45 Min. · Folge 458This week we’ve got a whole new batch of interesting fetishes from Reddit to discuss, from trees to heavy metal music to illusionists.
- Full of Yourself · 53 Min. · Folge 457What is self-confidence and why does it matter? This week, we’re unpacking what it means to feel confident, why it’s hot, and how to cultivate it.
- Straight to the Point · 59 Min. · Folge 456This week we continue our discussion of heterosexual culture, discussing straight wedding traditions, gender reveal parties, the kinkification of straight gender roles, and more.
- Set the Record Straight · 54 Min. · Folge 455To celebrate Halloween, this week we’re discussing some of the scarier aspects of heterosexual culture!
